I guess this question is for the females to answer. I don't want to go into detail, but we have been arguing more lately, and I have done some things for her to question her trust in me. I have never been unfaithful to her, but am not always the best bf. I'm making her a cake tonight, and bought her some flowers, and want to write her a letter. Any other suggestions? I just want to show her that I haven't gone anywhere (emotionally). I love her with all of my heart, and I want her to KNOW it. I want to make up to her for being an a$$hole lately.
What can I do to better show my girlfriend that I haven't lost interest and love her with all my heart?
tell her all of that and that you know that you've been doing it and you're sorry.
Reply:Just tell her you've realized how you've been acting and that you are sorry. And if you really mean it and want to show her you will change your behavior permanently. Of course you guys will have your lil fights like every other couple but just show her that you'd hate to lose her just because you were bein a jerk. Now dont be all fake and not yourself around her but just show her that you're really sorry and kno that you made a mistake by treating her that way.
Reply:The only thing you can do to really make a difference is to NOT make her question trust. If she has trust, she will know you are there with her emotionally. You're on a good start to fixing things. Don't give her any more reasons to question you, once trust is gone, it's very hard to get it back.
Reply:When she talks, listen to her...I know it sounds hard but it works!
Reply:I like your idea actions speak so much louder than words. Whatever you say just speak from your heart she will know. Good luck.
Reply:do things like lay on a bed with her in your arms and tell her every way you feel about her, and how your love for her has grown. talk about great memories that you two have, and then tell her everything that you love about her, and why you want to stay with her. that kind of stuff gets s so bad. it makes us feel good inside to know how a guy eels about us. just lay there with her, and quietly tell her in detail how much you love her, and that you haven't lost interest, and all the things she does that make you love her. (we like to know that you appreciate even the small things we do) I swear this will work. my bf did it, and i was so happy, that i was actually crying, and we had a bond so strong that night.
Reply:Romance and passion are the key. Just doing something special like flowers doesn't cut it. The true feeling have to be there, whole heartily. You should make her feel like you are the luckiest guy on earth to have her, by applying the romance and passion. Remember the feeling of when you very first fell in love!
Reply:try paying attention to what she tells you and remember it. u should b able to work out what she wants from what she says. then do something to show her that u heard her properly. thats what i would really like, my boyfriend to listen.
Reply:everything that you suggested is great, but you are missing one simple but important thing. we like it better when we actually hear the words coming from your mouth. that means a whole lot to us. even if you can't say it all, then at least try because at least we know you tried to say it from your mouth, and we know you didn't just get some advice from someone and just write it like it came from yourself.
Reply:Awww. yea my bf is the sameway.What i should tell you is to give her something she really likes and make it up to her .
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